Tag Archive: husband and wife

The Need for an Attractive Mate

One of man’s most basic marital needs is an attractive mate, among many others. By calling for a wife to be very attractive, she should then exert every effort to look something like the woman her husband married. Besides, that was the woman he fell in love with. But it does not mean a woman…

The Golden Rule in Marriage

For the wife to enjoy and get pleasure from sex, she will need a great deal of help from her husband. If he fails to give her the affection and tenderness she needs, she will just feel that her husband is too insensitive and uncaring. Hence, the principle of reciprocity. You will not be able…

Importance of Oneness in a Relationship

“Why doesn’t she get turned on the way she used to before we got married?” This is a common question of many husbands when they look back to the passionate encounters during courtship and dating days. Well, probably, it has something to do with the way men treated their ladies back then. After marriage, they…

Sexless Affection in Marriage

Why is it that when men think of affection, they connote it to sex so rapidly? Men should realize that there is also what they call “sexless affection.” Husbands should make affection a nonsexual way of relating to his wife. He should learn not to just turn it on and off to get his wife…

Affection, the Environment of the Marriage

An affair could be devastating to any marriage. Unfortunately, most affairs actually start due to lack of affection (for the wife) and lack of sex (for the husband). It becomes a vicious cycle in marriage. The wife does not get enough affection so she does not give in to her husband sexually. The husband does…

Husbands Should Be Affectionate Too

Affection is really important for a wife that she becomes confused if her husband does not respond in kind. For example, a wife calls her husband who is at work, just to talk, because to her, she would love to receive such a call, so she thinks and is sure her husband feels the same….

Affection, Important in Marriage

Men can also show affection in other ways that can be equally important to a woman. They send a greeting card or a note expressing their love and care. This way they can effectively communicate the same emotions with women. Most of the time, they express their love, care and affection by sending a bouquet…

Hugging, Form of Affection

To most women, affection symbolizes protection, security, comfort, and approval. These are vitally important commodities and necessities in their eyes. When a husband shows affection to his wife, he sends the following messages: * I will take care of you and protect you, because you are very important to me that I do not want…

His Needs and Her Needs

The five basic needs men expect their wives to fulfill in their marriage tend to be: 1. Sexual fulfillment 2. Recreational companionship 3. An attractive spouse 4. Domestic support 5. Admiration The five basic needs women expect their husbands to meet tend to be: 1. Affection 2. Conversation 3. Honesty and openness 4. Financial support…