The idea of getting married is sometimes seen as a fairy tale come true to some people and then there are those that consider getting married a nightmare that makes them nervous all the way up to the day that they are standing at the alter. No matter how nervous or happy you may feel about getting married there is always someone who has gone through the same emotions as you. Which is why before you actually walk down the aisle it is best to talk about how you are feeling with the whole getting married situation. Now some would say that only a professional can help you in understanding your feelings. But there are people who have been married long enough that truly understand why they felt the way that they did before getting married and can bring you through your emotions without having to call off the wedding or making your mate too nervous with all of the planning that you have to do for the wedding. So if you find yourself in the mist of getting married and are feeling some type of extreme emotion like never before remember that you are not alone and that there is someone out there who can help you overcome your feelings and relax.