I once attended in a reunion of my colleagues, and as expected, lot of things were discussed including the married life. I heard so many reasons that according to them are usually almost caused a couple to break their vows with their betterhalf. One that seized my interest is when they come up to ask each other the question “given a second chance, who would you want to be marry?, the one you love or the one who loves you more?”.
The topic became so interesting for they give each other’s very convincing and remarkable responses. Each and everyone successfully defended their response.
For some, a person should marry the one you love for it is whom you feel your love for, contrary to those who chose to be married to someone who loves them more, for they will be sure that they will do the best for them.
But the fact is that marriage is for two people who love each other, regardless of who is capable of giving more. Marriage is a commitment and exchanging of vows to each other. Someone may not be able to commit him/herself if they have no feelings to that someone or not capable to reciprocate that emotion. Tying the knot should not be done because of expectation but rather, what you feel or what you can give to someone you love.