Should I?

HIS SIDE.
MINE.
EACH IN THE MODE OF ROPE.
THERE IS A FORMING KNOT.
FORMING SLOWLY.
TO FORM A BOND SO STRONG.
WE ARE ONE.
IN LOVE.
IN GOD.
IN HEART.
IN MIND.
IN SOULS.
IN EARTHLY TEMPATIONS TOGETHER.
AS ONE.
NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENNS.
BUT HE GOT ON ONE KNEE.
BEGGED HIS SWEET DARLING PLEASE.
TIE THE KNOT.

I THOUGHT AND THOUGHT.
ABOUT THE LULLABY HE SPOKE IN THE NAME OF THE DIAMOND RING.
ON GRADUATION NITE.
I LOVED HIM.
I WANTED HIM.
I NEEDED HIM.
BUT I THOUGHT ABOUT THE PAIN AND SUFFERING.
THE TEARS AND SWEAT OF THE RELATION WE HAVE FORMED.
I LOOK BACK OVER THE FEW BIG SMILES AND I LAUGH.
I KNOW.
HE LOVES ME.
OUT OF ALL THE TEMPTING THINGS HE COMMITTS.
I AM STILL THERE.
FESTERING IN THAT FELLOWS HEART.
UNTIL HE HAS TO HAVE ME FORVER.
TO TIE THIS KNOT.

THE PREACHER SPEAKS OF ALL THE PROMISES WE HAVE TO MAKE TO ONE ANOTHER.
I GET SCARED.
KNEES START TO BEND.
WEAKING AND NUMBING.
SICK TO MY STOMACHE.
I LOOK IN HIS EYES.
KNOWIN THE WORDS THAT PART HIS MOUTH ARE NOT TRUE.
SPEAK NOW OR FORVER HOLD YOUR PEACE.
I OBJECTED TO MY OWN WEEDDING.
BECAUSE I WASNT READY.
TO TIE THE KNOT!

Simple and Practical Wedding by friendship

Getting married is a very difficult decision to make especially nowadays that we are facing difficulties most in financial aspect. Oftenly said that love conquers all even poverty as long as you are with someone you love. Marriage can be done even in a very simple way.  But haven’t you got an idea of indulging yourself to a memorable wedding? There is no need to pay a wedding planner, to hire  a florist, or any other people to have your wedding dream. All you need is friends, yes, your friends.  

Each of them for sure can contribute and willing to do so for your wedding. All you have to have is cooperation, creativity, and willingness to offer your help to each other.  Most of my friends cherished and enjoyed the outcome of their wedding days.  All were done through our friendship. Each has a part in that special days of their lives. It is just like how the family is preparing for the occasion and since we are almost a family to each other, there was no difference. We are as well as busy as the real family members. We are the ones who organized the occasion, from the the settings, decorating venues, up to hosting and gracing visitors. Couples found out that it was not just practical but it bring out the best from each of us and resulted an enjoyable event. 

It was really hard to attain everything at the same time, your loveone and your dream. And it is not always means giving up the other one. It is sometimes just need to be practical, after all, it is true that love always prevails.

Renewing Vows

When my husband and I were married we went to the court house. At the time we didn’t have the means for an elaborate wedding. We don’t regret the decision to marry in a court house. Fast forward nine years we are still married. We have 4 amazing kids. Now we are planning to renew our vows in a dream setting!

In the beginning we didn’t have a lot. Over the years ours lives and careers are much more established. We are planning to renew our vows in an elegant setting with our children as the wedding party. I am really looking forward to sharing in such a beautiful celebration with our loved ones.

A lot of time has passed over the years and we have supported one another through sickness and health, good times and bad. This wedding is a celebration of a solid commitment that not only my husband and I share but our children share as well to continue to be one as a family.