Tying the knot may bring joy to couple if they are prepared or took enough time in considering their decisions, aside from they really love each other.
It is indeed a true adage that getting married is an uncertain venture or a gamble. I know some people dear to me who have proven this saying. Both got married with someone who they met only in writing. The first one took months to know each other via sending mails (email is not popular during that time, not even text). Honestly, she’s not getting any younger then, that probably petrified her to take the risk of deciding to settle with someone whom she did not meet in person even once. They just exchange mails and pictures. After couple of years, they thought that they knew each other well that could be enough as good foundation of their relationship. So after some deliberations on the planned occasion, the guy came home for the wedding vow. And that was the first time they met finally in person. After that wedding, the guy went back to his job overseas, but came home after a year and stay for good. They were also blessed with siblings. But since they have all the time together, that caused to unveil all the incompatibilities between them, the girl gone through many struggles just to save their marriage saying for the sake of their kids. For the belief that she doesn’t want to have a broken family, she endure all the sufferings caused by marrying a guy who she doesn’t know well.
The other one had almost the same experiences that had happened to the first one. The only good thing these people have in common is the values of endurance for saving their marriage for averting of broken families. Such situation is an eye opener that before you decide to tie the knot, always considers vital factors to avoid conflicts for it will be more difficult to untie the knot in the future.