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Give ample breathing space to your partner!

July 27, 2009

Of the many things that come along with closeness, the one thing that really becomes a concern is possessiveness. One of the great irony attached with our lives is the fact that whoever we love the most, we also try to control their lives in some way or the other. This sometimes can lead to the other person being left with too little a space to even breathe properly. And that is when the problem starts, when the other person starts feeling irritated and subsequently starts drifting away as well.

It is very important to understand this fact that the true beauty of a relationship actually lies in giving complete freedom to your partner, and not suffocating him for even a proper breathing space. Trust is the main foundation of this relationship, and it can only be developed by laying complete faith in your partner. There is just no need to breach the personal space of a person or getting too inquisitive about his/her routine every hour. The very fact that the other person has willingly chosen to be your partner, must be reason enough to get along, without worrying too much about the past or what he/she does, when you are not around.

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