Look for love at hind sight, not first sight.

Looks can be deceiving at first sight; and there is every chance that you might find a different persona altogether when you get close. So don’t just go by the first sight; get close to the person and reflect about him/her in hind sight. Remember the age old saying, “Beauty is a nine days wonder” ? A person’s physical charm will only attract you in the beginning; but once you get used to it, you will start seeking inner qualities and traits to satisfy your emotional and mental appetite.

So guys, go slow and steady. And try to not jump into a conclusion unless you have seen the entire picture from inside-out. Although, some might think that I am suggesting getting into a non-committal relationship; but it is always wise to keep your options open, until you are absolutely sure about your partner, isn’t it? I would rather suggest you to be practical instead of suffering from a major heart-break.

One Response to Look for love at hind sight, not first sight.
  1. Yogita S.
    July 25, 2009 | 11:34 am

    It really makes sense to not rush into a decision.