Post-Wedding Blues
May 24, 2009
The Defected Wife is a weekly update of the life of a not-so-newlywed. As the eupohoria from the wedding fades and the morning sickness sets in (did we also mention she’s in her second trimester?–darn pills didn’t work!) and The Husband is now The Big Lug I Married who leaves his boxers all over the floor, she is now trying to make sense of things, keeping her marriage together with the man she loves while keeping her sanity intact through it all!
Is this how you feel after the wedding? What are you going to do to cure the post-wedding blues?
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Getting married and staying married
May 23, 2009
It seems like divorce is happening a lot now a days and there are a million reasons why I guess. When me and my husband got married we said if we do this divorce is not an option, and I think a lot more people need to take on that attitude that you just simply do not make divorce an option marriage is suppose to be a scared convenant between two people and God it should not be something that can be easily broken, things happen and life is hard sometimes but there should be ways that you can work it out and learn how to comprise with each other.
Palace wedding
May 23, 2009
India is land that has a rich cultural heritage. The palace wedding in India can be arranged without much hassle. since India is a country of varied culture , there are several ways in which the wedding ceremony can be performed. Since rituals play an important part of any palace wedding in India, special attention is given to the fact that all the ceremonies and rituals are conducted smoothly. Various prewedding and post wedding ceremonies could be arrange for the palace wedding in India. Apart from this, arrangements for decoration and dining will be taken care of.Each guest at the wedding is sure to receive royal treatment. Apart from the comfort of the guests, their accomodation can also be arranged for.
Printing your invitations
May 22, 2009
Your invitations can be as elegant or as simple as you want them to be, the choice is up to you of course if money is an issue for you and you have a budget you staying with then you want to take that into consideration, a couple of tips to help you cut your cost is you can make themselves and then take a sample to a reliable printers and have them do it or do them yourself completely the choice is up to
bridal shower made easy
May 22, 2009
If you are planning a bridal shower for some one, normally it’s done right before the wedding, keep it simple dont over stress yourself, keep the guest list small to a handful or so of the bride and grooms closest friends and family members that way the food and all the other activites can be planned a lot easier.
What to serve at a wedding
May 22, 2009
Most people perfer to have some sort of buffett style dinner because that way there is a little something for everyone and if you are planning on a big wedding its most cost effective, a lot of resturants or catering places can give you suggestions and may offer discounts.
Different ways that a guy cannot forget anversery
May 22, 2009
There are alot of us guy’s that do have the tendisy to forget our aniversery because that we do not think of it, and that we are so busy and that we do forget. But there are ways of not forgetting and that is having it on a holiday week end, like mine this year it is on Monday, May 25. So, I am going to try to do something special for my wife, on monday morning. And that i am going to try to pamper her in which she deserves for being married to me, but the main thing is that i love her ever so much. It is the little things that a woman does not forget nothing.
everything is different after getting married
May 21, 2009
Finding out after getting married that everything changes, because that you are no longer looking after for yourself. But for another person and they are depending on you for things, and that you have someone to go home to after work and to talk to as well instead of staring at 4 walls every day. Which that can get old very quickly, and that some of your habits do change but not too soon [haha]. I get onto my wifes nerves every day, and that i like doing it sometimes, all i do is go into the next room and laugh about it, and another thing that i love to do is to tease her, even though she hates it, i enjoy doing it. But the main thing is that we both love each other ever so much, i will send her a email telling her how she is so important and love her.
Indian groom accessories
May 20, 2009
One of the main groom accessories is the sherwani with a diamond cufflink and along with this is the turban which can be used with different fabrics like tie dyes, leheriyas or self woven brocades. This is usually worn with a sherwani, heavy churidar kurta or a jodhpuri suit. Another accessory is the pagri that is made up of chunri and gharchola which enhances the look of a groom.
The other groom accesssories are the Kantha, which is necklace that is made up of white pearls and beads and is worn with as an ornaments.There are traditional items called as Motimala that is worn enhance the look of the bride. The Sehra is also another important accessory that is worn during the wedding ceremony.Mojris are the traditional footwear that are worn with jodhpuris and sherwanis and are usually hand crafted.
Tips for wedding shopping
May 20, 2009
*The first and foremostthing to do is to prepare a budget for your shopping. Prepare a comprehensive budget and set aside expences for varied items, such as clothes, jewlry, cosmetics, upholstery, household items, gifts etc. This will enable you to stick to your budget, preventing over expenditure.
*The next thing to do is to make a list for all the things you need to buy.This should include all the things to be brought for the bride,
groom, relatives and family members.
*The list for the bride should include object like clothes, accessories, jewelry, cosmetics, toiletries, etc.
*The list for the groom should also include items like clothes, jewelry, toiletries, accessories, gifts to be given etc.
* A seperate list for the gift items to be given to the relatives should be prepare of that you do not leave out anybody.
*Another list for a favours for various pre and post wedding ceremonies should be prepared.



