No one wants to be betrayed in her wedding day. All set for a wedding day of my friend when she received a rumormonger concerning the gender of her soon-to-be better-half. The rumor also came to the knowledge and caused trouble to my friend’s relative, and even express disapproval of pursuing the wedding. Afraid it might caused the cancellation of the wedding and be embarrassed, she ignored the rumor and hold on to how well she knows her boyfriend. She didn’t even bother to interrogate the guy on the subject. She positively thinks that if it is true, it would have been discussed voluntarily to her. She heard nothing from the guy and the wedding was successfully celebrated. They live the life of a normal newly-wed couple for two years and gradually, my friend, probably because of the issue before her wedding- becomes ardent in observing every bit of their daily life. As to date, still afraid to open up the cause of her anxiousness, my friend feels they build a wall that parted them most of the time, but still it did not bother her guy even a bit. Thus, as expected, sometimes start petty quarrels between, until one time, she burst out her agony in the middle of their argumentation, in full surprise of her husband. And that made the door open to discuss and clear the issue. Now, my friend is contented with her life together with her understanding husband and little princess of her life. It was just proven that open communication and trust are significant spices in marriage.