At an age when you’ve got your dream career, income is stable, bone structures become bigger, easy to gain weight, conscious to wrinkles… people always tend to look at your marital status. “Are you still single?” with a follow-up question “Why?” And all you have to do is simply smile and answer “I am not ready yet”. And then the topic will be changed, finally. When will they ever gonna drop this question?
In this modern time, a majority of 20-something women still don’t want to get married. They get to be more attached to careers and enjoyment of their single, independent life. Now, the question is… should women get married? At this moment, I would have to say NO. I love my life right now, and I am not yet through with it. I pity my friends who already have a family of their own and don’t have much time for themselves. But then, at the back of my mind it says I should be married sooner or later too.
I realized you should share your life with another person who has flaws just like you. It is hard and not for the faint of heart, the selfish or the fickle. As you get older, he’s always there beside you through thick and thin, guide you and inspire you. However, you have to be responsible and reciprocative of his love. No problem as long as the person is the person you have a connection, the one you can say you want to spend the rest of your life with.