I LOVE the idea of looking like yourself on your big day, and keeping your own style. Don’t get sucked into growing your hair/ losing weight/ completely changing your look. In my own case, my future mother-in-law thinks contacts are a wedding day requirement, but I’d like to look like myself in the wedding pics and I plan to wear my specs and my gown.
On that topic, I saw a cool post from OffBeat Bride about wedding-day dreadlocks. Those curly dreads would look lovely with flowers clipped in or tucked in. I think crazy dreads and a traditional white (meringue-style) gown would make an awesome wedding picture. If you have wild hair, show off your wild hair!